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Harkats
committing a mistake By David Devadas It
is hardly surprising that the Harkat-ul-Jihad-e-Islami should try to prevent
Kashmir’s women from working. Several Pakistan-based organisations run
madarsas but the Harkat groups, including Harkat-ul-Mujahideen and
Harkat-ul-Ansar, have been spawned by the same set of madarsas that trained the
Taliban in the early and mid-1990s. They have brought to Kashmir the same
mindset from those conservative schools also imparted to the Taliban. In
trying to replicate what they did in Afghanistan here, however, they are making
a mistake. They believe, of course, that there is only one correct way for all
Muslim societies to conduct themselves but different ethnic groups have social
mores as diverse as their environments, histories and cultures. Former
Kashmiri militants who did a stint in the Afghan “jihad” say they were
amazed at the radically different mores they found there. Women in certain parts
of that country were never seen and one could be killed for even glimpsing the
women in a neighbour’s house by mistake. By contrast, Kashmiris do not by and
large subscribe to such limiting notions of what makes for a good Islamic
society. Kashmiris are apt to quote from the life of the Prophet to cite the
high esteem and responsibilities he gave to women, even in his own family.
Interaction between men and women is generally very open, not only within homes
but outside too. Kashmiri
women have since time immemorial shared with men the responsibilities not only
of raising families but also of running the household and the economy. This is
particularly true of agriculture, which remains even today the largest sector of
the Kashmiri economy. When the paddy crop is sown in May and June, women can be
seen in the verdant terraced fields across the valley, and again when the time
for harvest comes round in September. Through the summer, they can be seen
striding to those fields to make sure there is just enough water. Older
Kashmiris talk of women working in the fields ever since they can remember and
probably throughout history. In fact, they say, Pandit women remained sheltered
at home more often than Muslim women, who participated in sowing and harvesting,
standing shoulder to shoulder with men, and tended the cattle that many rural
families kept. When I asked a rural Kashmiri whether older women used to wear burqas
when he was a boy, he shook his head and said with a grin that nobody could
afford one. It was not the custom either, he added. The local Pir- Kashmir being
full of Sufi Pirs more so then than now - would keep a few burqas, which
older women would sometimes borrow for a wedding or other such major occasion
and then return. In
fact, contrary to what one might imagine, Srinagar’s women, particularly in
the old town areas, are sometimes bound by more conservative social mores than
rural ones. In more uptown areas of the city, of course, women participate in
all kinds of economic activity. A young woman, head sedately covered by a scarf,
can sometimes be seen driving a car alone on Srinagar’s streets. Upmarket
localities are dotted with beauty parlours and boutiques, which are not only
patronised by women but also quite often owned by them. I was once driving with
a friend when he stopped the car, saying he had to visit his sister. Up some
stairs, I found that it was not her home but her workshop that we had come to.
She owns a small boutique, employing tailors to make the dresses she designs.
She was obviously proud of her work and showed me some of the dresses, which
were modern without being provocative. There were tassels and shiny beads on
some of them, but there are obviously buyers for such clothes, which are
certainly not conservative. What I found remarkable was that she runs this
business at the edge of the generally conservative old town. Whenever
I have met her father, he has been dressed in traditional clothes, with an
Islamic skull cap on his head, but he obviously finds nothing objectionable
about this. Women can quite often be seen sitting together in cafes and
restaurants in Srinagar, particularly in the upmarket Regal Chowk area. At the
botanical gardens, couples can be seen sitting close together in almost every
shady corner on just about any pleasant afternoon. To
try and replicate what the Taliban imposed in Afghanistan in this kind of
society can only create a reaction. Already, over the past 13 years, Kashmir’s
women have several times defied diktats that they must wear burqas, even
after acid was thrown at the faces of some. Under threat, women have donned burqas
for a few days or weeks but they threw them off again each time. Now that
their income and self-sufficiency is at stake, they could react with even more
resolve. Source:
The Tribune
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